Some 30 or 40 years ago, we had to have our husband's permission to begin formation; that no longer is the case. It might help if he could speak with most other husbands who say it is the best thing that has happened for their wives, children and them. It makes one a better Christian and a better person. Some husbands, seeing the good results, have chosen to accompany their wives by beginning the same formation in the Sons of St. Francis de Sales.